- I was suffering from trauma for 2 years since Timothy's (my third son) accident on July 1, 2011
- Then the brick wall collapsed when he finally passed away on August 29, 2013
- The trauma and loss were so painful that I lost 21 kg in the 2 years
- I am wondering whether I can recover from this trauma
Solicitation
- So I am soliciting ideas, words of comforts, expert advice on how to cope with this tragedy
- Please make your contributions here so we, together, can help others who are going through the same situation as I am
Dedication
- To all who have been going through loss of loved ones and the trauma of caring for sick and suffering
- To my son, Timothy, whom I have loved for 39 years and forever
- To Timothy's mother, Catherine, who has sacrificed so much for Timothy from his birth, growing years, sickness and passing away.
ICU after heart surgery
Timothy during healthy days
Departing for IJN for heart surgery
With wife, Vivien after surgery
- To all who have been going through loss of loved ones and the trauma of caring for sick and suffering
- To my son, Timothy, whom I have loved for 39 years and forever
- To Timothy's mother, Catherine, who has sacrificed so much for Timothy from his birth, growing years, sickness and passing away.
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| ICU after heart surgery |
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| Timothy during healthy days |
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| Departing for IJN for heart surgery |
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| With wife, Vivien after surgery |
You will be missed by all of us that you left behind. We love you always.
ReplyDeleteI knew a little of how you felt, I lost my eldest nephew to colon cancer in 2010, he was absolutely normal until gawai that year & he suddenly fall very ill & within a span of 3 months only suddenly he was gone ... I have to visit the cancer wards few times every day to help my sister cared for him ... and when he finally passed on I used my own pajero to bring his body back to the kampong just to give him a last ride ... I find a little bit of comfort in you blog here ... thk you so much (Baka Riden)
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